Protecting Children with Disabilities During Bullying Prevention Month and Beyond

By Jeff Forte, Esq.

Bullying is a heartbreaking reality that affects many children across the nation, but for those with disabilities, the consequences are often even more severe. Children with disabilities face additional hurdles, not just in their day-to-day learning but also in social interactions. Bullying exploits these differences, leaving emotional scars that can last a lifetime. As parents, we have to be aware of how deeply bullying can impact children with disabilities—especially from an educational perspective. Every child deserves a safe, supportive environment to thrive in, and it’s our job to ensure that this becomes a reality for all students.

The Hidden Impact of Bullying on Children with Disabilities

Children with disabilities often experience bullying differently than their peers. Whether the disability is physical, developmental, or emotional, these children are more likely to be singled out. Some disabilities are visible, making a child an easy target for bullies, while other disabilities, like learning or developmental differences, may not be obvious but can still lead to social exclusion. Unfortunately, bullies tend to exploit any perceived vulnerability, and children with disabilities are often seen as easy targets.

This leads to increased isolation. A child with a disability may already feel different from their peers, and bullying only deepens that sense of alienation. Over time, this isolation can create barriers in forming friendships and building confidence. Bullying also often triggers heightened anxiety and depression, particularly in children who may already struggle with mental health issues. This can escalate to school refusal, where a child becomes so overwhelmed by the bullying that they no longer feel safe attending school.

The Legal Perspective

The law is clear: schools are responsible for providing a safe learning environment for all students, including those with disabilities. Under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) and Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act, schools must ensure that bullying does not interfere with a child’s access to education. But what can parents do when the bullying does not stop, and the school seems unable or unwilling to address the problem?

First, parents should know that bullying can be addressed through their child’s Individualized Education Program (IEP) or 504 Plan. If bullying impacts your child’s emotional well-being or their ability to learn, you have the right to request an IEP or 504 meeting. During this meeting, you can ask for modifications that provide additional support for your child, such as counseling, social skills training, or even a change in their classroom environment. Schools are legally required to take steps to prevent and address bullying, especially when it interferes with a child’s education.

Second, it’s vital that parents understand their right to hold schools accountable. If a school fails to protect a child from bullying, parents can file a formal complaint through the school district or the Office for Civil Rights (OCR). If the school continues to neglect its responsibilities, legal action may be necessary to ensure that the child’s educational rights are upheld. Schools that fail to intervene in bullying incidents involving children with disabilities could be found in violation of federal law.

Get Help from Forte Law Group

If your child is being bullied at school and their right to an appropriate education is at risk, Forte Law Group can help. We understand the unique challenges that families of children with disabilities face and are here to provide the legal support needed to protect your child’s educational rights. Call us at (203) 257-7999 to learn more about how we can help you advocate for your children.